The end of a marriage can be a lonely time. Although you may feel like the divorce process itself is just a formality and that you are ready to move forward with your life, the fact is that dating before your divorce is finalized is generally not a good idea. Continue reading to find out why.
The Risks of Dating Before Your Divorce is Finalized
Dating during the divorce process can add a lot of unnecessary stress to an already difficult situation. No matter how much you both want the divorce, if your spouse sees you with someone new so early on, it can stir up some negative emotions and even call your fidelity into question. Although an affair that occurs after you are living separately generally does not have a direct impact on the outcome of a divorce, it can result in a highly contentious process. If your spouse believes you were unfaithful, your spouse will be less inclined to negotiate a mutually agreeable resolution, which can ultimately result in greater legal costs.
If you have children, dating during your divorce may also impact your relationship with them. Divorce can take a major toll on children and seeing their parent with a new partner can further add to their stress and create a tense situation at home. Help them cope with this major life-altering event by putting their needs first.
Lastly, although dating may provide an immediate self-esteem boost, you should take some time to heal from your divorce. Understanding what went wrong in your relationship and learning from it can help you avoid repeating similar mistakes in future relationships. Moreover, dating while you are still getting divorced can put prospective partners in an uncomfortable situation. Give your future love interests a chance by closing this chapter in your life before beginning a new one.
Speak to Our Compassionate Family Law Attorney About Your Divorce Case Today!
Divorce is a difficult experience for families to endure, but with the assistance of a knowledgeable family law attorney, you can more easily navigate it. At David Self Family Law and Mediation, our divorce lawyers are committed to helping clients dissolve their marriage as smoothly as possible while protecting their interests. We understand the obstacles you may face during this time and will provide the strong legal support you need.
Reach out to our law office today at (980) 223-3340 to set up a case evaluation with one of our attorneys to get started.